Drop-off can be the hardest part of the day, for children and grown-ups. These small rituals help a goodbye feel safe, short and predictable.
Most children cry at drop-off at some point. It is a normal sign of a strong bond, and it usually passes within minutes. What helps most is a goodbye that looks the same every day.
1. Keep it short
A long goodbye tells a child something worrying is about to happen. Hug, say your words, and go.
2. Use the same words
Something like: I am going to work, I will be back after snack. Children relax when the sentence is familiar.
3. Hand over to one person
Each child at Tinker has a key teacher. Passing your child directly to that person makes the moment clear.
4. Bring a small piece of home
A photo for the cubby, a soft toy, or a scarf that smells of home can help during the first weeks.
5. Never sneak out
It may seem kinder, but children who are not told you are leaving often become more anxious the next day. We will always call if your child cannot settle.
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