Tears, stomping and slammed doors are part of growing up. Here are the phrases our teachers use to help children name a feeling and find a way through it.
Young children feel things fully. Our job is not to stop the feeling but to help them understand it and stay safe while it passes.
Name it first
You look really cross. Your face is tight and your hands are fists. Naming the feeling calmly shows the child that it is understood.
Phrases we use often
- I will stay with you until you feel ready
- You can be angry, and I will not let you hit
- Do you want a hug or some space?
- Let us take three slow breaths together
Each room has a cosy corner with cushions and picture cards of feelings. Children can go there whenever they need a moment.
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Tours run Tuesday and Thursday at 9:30. Bring your child, stay for snack time, and ask us anything.